My three year old wanted a pillow, but all of ours were too big for him. His tiny head seemed to either bend too much at the neck or sink in too far in the pillows I tried. Then I found the Relax Right toddler pillow. He loves it! You know, kids toss and turn a lot while sleeping, so the pillow is moved around. He puts his head on the pillow to start out, but by morning the pillow is nowhere near his head. He can move it around like a toy.